Dusty, I haven't read all the PP (previous posts) so this might have already been said. The first thing that sprung to my mind when I read your DH's fears of organ donation as a kind of 'dissipation' of his soul how would he explain the deaths of all the people in the world where body parts have been totally destroyed eg September 11... so many people's bodies were instantly incinerated. Does this mean that their souls were "broken" too? I personally don't think so. It's just my belief that the body and soul are two separate entities.

It's great that the lines of communication are open between you guys on this issue because I agree, it's very important.

i'll try to read the PP when the kids are a bit quieter!