I actually don't see it as bad or good.

Things happen. Some things are easy for us to accept as they don't challenge us - they are fun and nice and enjoyable. Some things are really tough. But are they bad or good? I don't think they are either.

I believe that experiences are given to us so that we are challenged to grow, to better ourselves - to develop to our highest potential.

I believe that is what this lifetime is for.

I believe we come into this lifetime with a contract to fulfill. We will be given opportunity to develop that potential. Each of us has a different contract - and different wounds that we bring into this life time.

I have had many hardships in life & the older I have got the more comfortable I am with accepting them. Not putting a judgement of good or bad. For there is always yin and yang - light and dark. Always.

I am not saying it's easy. I am not saying it doesn't hurt hideously sometimes. Just that it is what it is. Asking if it "should" be happening is fruitless. It is happening. Accepting it without judging it as a good or bad thing - just as it is -seeking what lesson the situation may be offering.

Sending you loads of hugs - and understanding...