Oh TD, I did not mean to make you cry! I did see that you have made an apt with a medium. I hope that they can answer your questions. I will try to answer any others you may have if you wish, and you are more than welcome.

You are right to tell DH of your dream, this guy was and still is a part of your life, so DH should really know. He does have a point about dream guy's mum though. I think she also feels the living connection with her son through you.

You are not going nuts, I have no doubt that dream guy is around you sometimes. How you talk to him is the right thing to do. (As long as you feel comfortable)

Also, at your medium, if he does come through and things are 'finalised', then he may not come to you anymore. Unlikely I think, but I think that if he feels that things are (for want of a better word) 'finished' between the two of you (ie, he acknowledges your new love and family, and you say goodbye to him), then he may also move on, especially as he died suddenly, he didn't get the chance before he left, so as a result, he's never really 'left'. Do you know what I mean?