I am so sorry for your loss...and what an awful experience to receive from the hospital. Please look after yourself and take it easy. Would you be eligible for compassionate leave or something similar if you don't have any other leave available to take? After what you have gone through I don't think anyone would expect you to turn up at work on Monday morning...you do need time to grieve and come to terms with what has happened, without having to deal with work related issues as well.
Oh I am so so sorry, the hospital has not done the right thing.
You will need to take some time to grieve, I know that you are worried about your pay but perhaps your work has grievance leave, I am sure once you let them know what happened they will support you and give you some time.
May he rest in peace.
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Ohh huni, I am so shocked that you were treated that way. You have been thru a traumatic time. We are all here for you. Please please look after yourself.
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Oh Lauren, how awful for you. What you have been through is very traumatic and you must stop and grieve. I am sure that your work would let you have time off if you let them know. I can't believe the hospital either. I am so so sorry for your family's loss of Dylan.
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I am so sorry for the loss of Dylan
Life can really be unfair some times.
I think you should write a letter to the hospital about the treatment you received, because it seemed that they did not treat you the way they should have.
Oh CM, I am devastated to read this news...my heart is breaking for you
You know what? Bugger work. You need to really take care of yourself right now babe. Can I gently suggest both you and DP get some counselling if you feel you need it. You have not only lost your son, but the way you lost him is extremely traumatic
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Thanks all, according to a girl at work my boss actually has a heart and was very freaked out. I told him I wasn't coming into work and he said that I have no leave so I told him I was laying in a pool of blood with my dead baby on the floor waiting for DP to come home to take me to the hospital. Then he rung later to see how I was (DP needs someone to blame so he is blaming my boss for giving me the flu and nothing I can say will change his mind right now) and DP said well I just had to bury my son in the yard, CM is in hospital fighting for her effing life and may die/need a hysterectomy and theres nothing DP could do, kinda shut the boss up pretty quick so Im hoping he won't be an absolute evil sod to me when I do show up. We are in the middle of rush and understaffed because he 'forgot' to ring staff then no one was available... not my problem!
My tumbley hurts today but at least I no longer resemble part-hulk with my ballooned up arm (they filled my arm instead of my vein with saline) so that's always a good thing...
I stupidly asked my DP to take a picture of Dylan before burying him, I don't know why I just didn't want to forget him I guess... then I stupidly looked at the pic today... so now I'm not so great... self-induced idiocity...
Reply With QuoteI'm so sorry for your loss, and the awful treatment you were given, thats just inexcusable.
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