Hi,

i am deeply sorry for your loss hun. A loss is a loss no matter how far in the pregnancy you were. Many people don't understand. I lost my Zara at 7 weeks, and to me she was (and still is) as precious as my two other children. You will never forget you bub, but the grieving does lessen as time goes on. Just the other day, i was talking about Zara and my mum asked if she would have been born by now? I said "mum, she would have been 6months old/" I got all teary. There are still days when i think about her. Your emotions being out of whack are totally normal. You body as gone through a great deal emotionally and physically. You will get there, just give it some time.

If it will inspire you... I have PCOS. My period were 2 months apart. I conceived my son naturally in 6 months (without trying) and had to try for about 1 year to get my little girl. I went to an endocrinologist (hormone specialist) whilst trying to conceive my daughter. I was 80kgs then. He told me to lose 10kgs, still TTC and then come back to see him if it didn't happen. This was August 2006. I lost 10kgs by October 2006 and in November 2007 i was pregnant. I didn't go to the second appt, i didn't need to as i had conceived. I phoned and told him the good news!

It can and will happen.

xxxooo