HPL - I just wanted to add that you shouldn't feel guilty at all about enjoying your wedding day.
This is a very special time for you and DF - soon to be DH - to celebrate your love for each other.
Be happy that you have each other, especially through this difficult time.
I am in tears reading all your messages, thank you so much for your kind words and hugs they do help....
I had a call from my Ob today, basically confirming what we already know, my HCG levels 9 days ago were 16900 (excellent at the time) however now, they are only 18300 (not really that good ) so I will go and be told formally Monday that I will need a D&C... in saying that, I think, I think, I want to try and see what my body does and see if I can go naturally, I guess in my heart I am praying just praying that a hearbeat is going to appear one day....
I just - I went from being so scared about falling pregnant bad timing and all to falling head over heels in love with my baby a baby who we know (hope we know) would be a boy and then this is what happens I just feel blah...
Ok enough about that, I have to stop coming on here now until AFTER my wedding, sorry ladies I just cant keep doing this to myself...
I will be back on after my wedding is done and i have had a wonderful day.. I am going to remember that tomorrow is baout my DF and I becoming Husband and Wife and to treasure our moments with our daughter who is so very special to us...
Hi there HPL, just wanted to drop in and send you some love So sorry you have gone through a mc, you will get through it with your (husband) Tomorrow concentrate on YOU and your beautiful future together xo BTW your inbox is full
What a roller coaster ride you been through You have coped in the best way you know how, be proud of yourself for that. All the best for your wedding day. I hope it's all you guys dreamed it would be and more. Look forward to hearing about your special day xo
This is the end of the road for us now, we got confirmation today that our little one was not meant for this world just yet. DH ( ) and I have decided, well DH is supporting my choice that I want to try and give this baby ever chance to pass through me naturally, I will go back to my Ob in 2.5 weeks time and see how everything is progressing...
My ob has given us a very high chance of naturally passing the baby so I want to see how that goes before we decide on anything - in the ultrasound he said that the sac had already started to separate from the wall so it may happen very soon. I have started to cramp and have some pain so we will see. I feel that I need to do this for my own sake knowing that I have done everything in my power to try my best to keep this baby, it will help me heal... I hope....
On the plus side I had a wonderful wedding on the weekend, it was perfect DH and I had the best time couldnt have been better.....
HPL & Mr HPL - congrats on your wedding, and I am so glad you had a wonderful day
for your little angel.
FWIW - I have had a D&C and a natural m/c, and I found that I felt so removed from the D&C that it all seemed very sureal - with the natural m/c at least I was part of the process. Gentle hugs, and do take care.
I passed naturally with all my m/c and have to say that i found it an important step to take. I had issues after one, in that the bleeding took awhile (this was later in the first trimester), so I recommend a follow-up scan regardless to check that baby has completely come through ITMS.
HPL - I know this is so very late... but you are not weak my friend. Not at all. We all do what is right for us at the time. I hope that you are starting to heal, and I hope that both DD and DH ( congratulations on a lovely wedding too) are treating you well. Go gently.
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) so I will go and be told formally Monday that I will need a D&C... in saying that, I think, I think, I want to try and see what my body does and see if I can go naturally, I guess in my heart I am praying just praying that a hearbeat is going to appear one day....
So sorry you have gone through a mc, you will get through it with your (husband)
Tomorrow concentrate on YOU and your beautiful future together xo BTW your inbox is full
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