Boble, I am so sorry for your 3 losses. My heart goes out to you and your DH.

I am glad you're getting some tests done, it certainly puts you back in control of things. Hopefully it's something really straight forward, and you will be pregnant once again, this time with a full term and healthy baby ! I agree about eliminating the pressure from the family, believe me, been there done that ! My mum always pushed me to have a baby since I was getting really old (accoring to her..) so I feel like maybe I got pregnant just to please her. This time, when I'm ready to TTC, it will be on my terms and all for me !
Good luck
Beata xox