3 weeks ago my baby died

**Junglemum** · May 24th, 2009, 05:14 PM

So sorry for the loss of your precios baby girl. You will find lots of support around BB. Welcome.

**westy** · May 24th, 2009, 05:18 PM

Hello Kristalee,

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your precious little Lola.

Take care x

**Snacks** · May 24th, 2009, 05:21 PM

Hi Kristalee, I am so very sorry for the loss of Lola.
I am sure you will find a great deal of support and understanding from the women on here. Thank you for sharing with us.

**Junglemum** · May 24th, 2009, 05:27 PM

i too just read your blog. What a terribly sad, but beautiful story you shared. Lola was gorgeous. The family time you shared sounds really special. I am so sorry she's gone.

**Visitor8** · June 30th, 2009, 11:41 AM

oh beautiful lady

How very very sad. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

**ttcanxiety** · May 24th, 2009, 05:34 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. Your story is moving and had me in tears i truly do regret that you had to have this experience. May Lola Rest In Peace.

**AnyDream** · May 24th, 2009, 05:53 PM

Kristalee, I'm so sorry to hear you have lost your precious daughter Lola. I hope you are able to find plenty of support and consolation here on BB.

x
Marydean

**Jellyfish** · May 24th, 2009, 06:09 PM

Thankyou for sharing the story of Lola's birth. She is absolutely beautiful. I am so sorry for your loss. Will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts

**~Gee_Whizzy~** · June 3rd, 2009, 09:23 PM

Kaylee - Thank you for being so brave to share your story with us. - Never before have i felt so helpless and inspired at the same time. - The strength of you, your DH Bren and your extended family is amazing and your beautiful daughter Lola was truly blessed to have been born into such a family...

My thoughts and prayers are with you and may your precious angel baby RIP

**jackrose** · June 3rd, 2009, 09:53 PM

Kaylee, thank you for sharing your story, it is incredibly moving to read and your pictures are just so beautiful.

I am so sad to know that little Lola was born sleeping. I hope that you find comfort in telling your story, in introducing your little girl to so many people and in knowing that so many people have been moved by her. Your family look so beautiful together and I bet you are really glad to have photos of you all together.

**Jahzara** · June 3rd, 2009, 10:06 PM

Thankyou so much for sharing your story. Written with so much love !

I sit here completely distraught for you and wishing things were so different.
I am so very sorry for your loss.

You have given precious little Lola a beautiful tribute - You are amazing !

I am at a loss - i dont know what the right words are. Sorry.

I hope that the hill you climb while healing isnt too steep !
Please take care of yourself and your family.

You have found a fabulous group of Ladies (and Men) here. They will be able to give you lots of advice, strength and love along the way.

Remember we are always here for you !

xxxxxoooo

**dee81** · May 24th, 2009, 06:11 PM

kaylee i am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful little girl my thoughts are with your family.

**aussienic** · May 24th, 2009, 06:55 PM

I am sorry for the loss of Lola. She is just beautiful.

**[M]umma[M]ia** · May 24th, 2009, 07:14 PM

I am so sorry for the loss of your gorgeous baby girl xox

**Miss.B** · May 24th, 2009, 07:21 PM

Hi Kristalee, and welcome to BB. I am so sorry about your loss, it just breaks my heart to read of others who have lost their precious babies. Lola is so beautiful, I am sure she is now watching over you and your family.
It must be so hard to come so far in your pregnancy, only to come away with empty arms. I've lost my little son Joshua at almost 21 weeks, and I can't imagine losing him at full term. I too read so many books about miscarriage, stillbirth, dealing with loss, you name it, I read it. I must say it did help me to understand why things sometimes can go so horribly wrong. It's still so unfair though, no matter how you look at it. I wish I could take your pain away hun, and heal your heart. In time it will happen, but the grieving process must happen, and when will it end? I don't know. I'm still grieving for my little one, and I don't think I will ever stop.
I wish I could reach across the screen and give you a huge hug

Take good care of yourself, and please seek help if you need it, don't take it all on board yourself, it is so much for one person. I started to see a grief councillor straight after I lost Joshua and still see her to this day. She has helped me enormously, she's helped me to understand and deal with my loss. I also attend the SANDS meetings monthly, which really help too.
Beata xxx

**kaylee** · May 24th, 2009, 09:11 PM

Hi Kristalee, and welcome to BB. I am so sorry about your loss, it just breaks my heart to read of others who have lost their precious babies. Lola is so beautiful, I am sure she is now watching over you and your family.
It must be so hard to come so far in your pregnancy, only to come away with empty arms. I've lost my little son Joshua at almost 21 weeks, and I can't imagine losing him at full term. I too read so many books about miscarriage, stillbirth, dealing with loss, you name it, I read it. I must say it did help me to understand why things sometimes can go so horribly wrong. It's still so unfair though, no matter how you look at it. I wish I could take your pain away hun, and heal your heart. In time it will happen, but the grieving process must happen, and when will it end? I don't know. I'm still grieving for my little one, and I don't think I will ever stop.
I wish I could reach across the screen and give you a huge hug

Take good care of yourself, and please seek help if you need it, don't take it all on board yourself, it is so much for one person. I started to see a grief councillor straight after I lost Joshua and still see her to this day. She has helped me enormously, she's helped me to understand and deal with my loss. I also attend the SANDS meetings monthly, which really help too.
Beata xxx

I have been thinking about contacting SANDS, I have a book put out by them of stories of Loss, but I am a bit scared as well at the moment. I dont feel like I could cope with other mothers grief as well as my own at the moment and I picture myself just crying the whole time. I think in time I will go down that road tho.

Thankyou everyone for your kind words about my Lola

**BabyButterfly** · May 26th, 2009, 01:32 PM

I have been thinking about contacting SANDS, I have a book put out by them of stories of Loss, but I am a bit scared as well at the moment. I dont feel like I could cope with other mothers grief as well as my own at the moment and I picture myself just crying the whole time. I think in time I will go down that road tho.

Thankyou everyone for your kind words about my Lola

hi
So sorry you have had to go through this and to lose your precious daughter Lola.
She is absolutely beautiful.
I to have lost my daughter at 41 weeks, my story is in this section also under: Milana Matilda Rose
I have quote what you have siad about talking to anyone else who has gone through this, but if you change your mind, just pm me.

**MsPink** · May 24th, 2009, 07:27 PM

Hi Kristalee,

I too read your blog. Your writing was filled with so much passion, love and pain.

The slide-show of your beautiful Lola was so moving. She was very beautiful and her rosebud lips just perfect.

My deepest sympathies to you all...I sit here with tears pouring down my face for you. I am so so sorry for your devastating loss.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all..

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