Im so sorry for your losses. My first angel had passed before we saw the heartbeat but we heard a perfectly healthy heartbeat just two weeks before I lost the second. Its so hard and Im glad you are getting tested.
How dare that Dr blame your partner! Im sure he is going through enough!
Clairesmummy- Can you find out what test came back abnormal? My advise is to get copies of all the tests you have had done and keep them for your records, and take them to your FS.
Hun, your doctor is an *******. I would swap doctors hun.
I understand how upset and confusing it is to see a HB and then have them pass away shortly after. I seen lily's heartbeat 5 days before she passed, and everything looked normal with her (turns out everything was normal) but i didn't know she had gone until 3 weeks later.
Hun, i think you just need lots of right now, especially after your horrible doctors comments, and i think we're all happy to give them to you
Hope you get a good nights rest and peaceful dreams xoxox
hun big hugs from me also, i am appalled the dr said that to you, he should be encouraging you to rely on your partner for support not suggesting blaming each other for something you have no control over, im so angry to hear that happened to you
I know I have posted this many times before but it was sent to me during some of my lowest of lows with my losses it helped me to reflect to take a step back I dont know if it will help you but it has a wonderful meaning behind
Frankly, if the truth be known, I think God has singled me out for a special treatment. I think God meant for me to build a thirst for a child so strong and so deep that when that baby is finally placed in my arms, it will be the longest, coolest, most refreshing drink I've ever known.
Clairesmummy, how are you going now? have you got any results back? I pm'd you. i just want to let you know that i am constantly thinking about you and are sending you hugs xx
Last edited by Melster; March 16th, 2011 at 02:26 PM.
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ClairesMummy, Im sorry you are feeling so down. I know how hard it is, and how alone you feel, even though you are supported by a great DH and friends. Me too. Everyone expects you to just get over it, and its not really socially acceptable to talk about it, so it can stay bottled up if you let it.
Dory has given you some great advice, and you really should consider ringing the number she has given you, especially as you feel that you cant do ordinary tasks.
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I know I have posted this many times before but it was sent to me during some of my lowest of lows with my losses it helped me to reflect to take a step back I dont know if it will help you but it has a wonderful meaning behind
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