First of all I want to thank you all so much for your words of advice and your great support in this horrible nightmare I am going through right now. Without you all I would be a total mess by now. I have had my bad days no doubt about that, where I just can't see the end of the tunnel but the last couple of days have been ok for me where I am starting to see the light again and have even started thinking of our future together as a small family of 3. I have been asked to come in and see the DR the sent bubs away for testing but I said NO to that and have made an appointment to go in and see my usual GP to get the results as she is so much more caring and supportive than the other DR I had to see while she was away. I am now sitting here thinking that it has to be bad news for the DR to ask me to come in and see them about the results cause if there was nothing wrong they wouldn't ask to see me so quickly. I have no idea what could of been wrong with my baby to make him/her pass I am totally at a loss as to what to expect from the testing they did on bub, I am petrified about getting the results tomoro afternoon and have no idea how I am going to cope with hearing any type of bad news. If there was something wrong with bub what should I expect to hear and is there anything they can do to stop it from happening if we ever decide to TTC again? I have so many questions and I have no idea where to start with it all.
Dory~ With out your words of advice and your loving support for me through all the losses I have had I would not know where to turn, you have given me so much hope and so much inspiration I can never thank you enough. You truly are a very special woman and very gifted in being able to give such knowledgable advice to us all.
Kell~ Thank you so much for keeping me in your thoughts that truly means so much to me, I greatly appreciate you caring and all your hugs darl. xox
Diamond Girl~ Thank you so much for everything you have said, hugs to you for your support hun.
Melster~ Thank you to you also for keeping in touch and your words of advice and support. xox
Joeve~ Nice to see you again it's just a shame it's not for happier circumstances darl, thank you for your support. xox Hope you are still enjoying your horses, mine have been a HUGE benefit to me through this loss, they are my rocks for emotional support.
PossumMagic~ Thank you to you for your support and advice darl, I hope all is going well for you. xox
Clairesmummy - oh sweetie, thankyou, thankyou so much for such kind words. But you're most welcome... just glad to try to help and even better that I may have actually helped.
Now about tomorrow? I would be totally flabbergasted if the Dr's just called you up with the results, whatever they are. I would EXPECT the Dr to sit down with you in a long private consultation and go through the results gently and carefully, and give you time to cry and ask questions. So don't assume the worst just cause you're going in for an appointment.
About how you'll cope? You will cope... whatever the news and however you respond.... that's your coping. You don't have to be brave or stoic or anything in particular. I would take a list of questions that you have cause if you're like me you never remember what you wanted to ask and also ask the Dr if you can talk to them at any time over the phone if you have any further questions.
GL sweetie and glad there is some easing of the burden....
Reply With Quotehoney, i wish i could hold your hand and go to the dr with you, i'll be thinking of you and waiting to hear how you go
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