Baby Alexander - born and died 28-04-08

**MistyFying** · May 5th, 2008, 05:48 PM

Danek I'm so sorry your little Alex passed away

and how sad that these are the tragic conditions in which you've found BellyBelly. I hope you find comfort and hope amongst the women and men in this community -- some of whom have walked a similar painful road to you. May Alex rest in peace.

**Pretty Butterfly** · May 5th, 2008, 05:56 PM

As the angel of life opened her book, and went to write your sons name, she gently closed her book, and whispered, "Too beautiful for this world...."

I am so so so sorry for your loss......

**Lisa** · May 5th, 2008, 05:58 PM

Danek,
I am so very sorry and saddened to hear about the loss of your perfect angel Alexander.
Sending you loads of cyber hugs and keeping you in my thoughts.
Lisa

**Spring Angel** · May 5th, 2008, 06:27 PM

Danke: I am so so sorry for the loss of your beautiful son and I sadly know the pain all to well, I lost my son at 36 weeks 2 days. At the moment the pain is just so raw, you are in survival mode so just do what you need to do to get through these horrible days. When I laid my son to rest I was almost in another body, I could not and would not believe that this was happening. I have no idea how I got through it, but I did, and you will also.

You have shown unimaginable strength giving birth to your son and that strength will get you through the next hours, days and months. I know how long those days are, it feels like the pain will never end, like life isn't worth it anymore but you will survive this hun, I promise you the clouds will slowly start to lift and the sun will begin to shine upon your face again.

Although I am a complete stranger to you, I will hold your hand through this and if there is anything I can do, any question you want to ask please do be afraid.

With compassion and understanding.

Lv Spring

Stillborn but born still.

RIP sweet little Alexander.

**[M]umma[M]ia** · May 5th, 2008, 07:00 PM

oh hunni...im so sorry :hug2:

**Mel1977** · May 5th, 2008, 07:14 PM

Danek - I am so very sorry to hear about your son Alexander

My heart breaks to read of another precious baby growing wings. You have shown so much strength to be able to post your story here. Unfortunately I also know your pain as I lost my son Nicholas at 36w1d. I remember his funeral as almost like an out of body experience, like it was someone else and I was just watching. Wednesday is going to be one of the hardest things you will ever have to do but know that Alexander will be with you guiding you through, every step of the way.

Please know that we are all here for you whenever you need us, I personally found BB to be the one place I could go for unconditional support and I hope you find some comfort here also.

Take care, big

and thinking of you on Wednesday.

Mel

**MsPink** · May 5th, 2008, 08:12 PM

I am so so sorry for your loss of your beautiful Alex.

My thoughts are with you and your family...

**Lissie** · May 5th, 2008, 09:38 PM

I am so truly sorry for the loss of your dear son Alex - this is unimaginable - my thoughts are with you and your family. Life is so unfair sometimes.

**Hammi** · May 6th, 2008, 12:15 PM

Oh no Danek, I'm so sorry for the loss of your son Alexander. May he rest in peace and watch over you and your DH.

**krisp** · May 6th, 2008, 02:17 PM

I feel so desperate for you. My heart aches thinking how you must be feeling. Please be kind to yourself.

**Snacks** · May 6th, 2008, 02:44 PM

Danek, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your little boy. My heart goes out to you.

**Snoopea** · May 6th, 2008, 02:49 PM

I'm so very sorry to hear of the terrible news of your beautiful son Alexander.

**BekZ** · May 6th, 2008, 02:57 PM

Danek - I am so sorry for the loss of baby Alexander. My heart goes out to you and your family. Please take care of your self and drop in here to BB whenever you just need to vent or chat. Take care hon

**daisy** · May 6th, 2008, 04:28 PM

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Sending you many hugs.

**Spring Angel** · May 6th, 2008, 08:13 PM

Danek: Thinking of you and your family tomorrow as you lay your angel to rest. I will light a candle for your precious little Alexander.

Lv Spring

**Sueby** · May 7th, 2008, 08:35 AM

Hi Danek,
I have tears in my eyes I cannot imagine going through what you are going through. Thinking of you today.
Thankyou for sharing your story hopefully we can support you through this emotional journey
Big Hugs

**danek** · May 10th, 2008, 06:01 AM

Thank you all for such kind messages.

Perhaps its the anonymity of this forum or delerium from lack of sleep that is letting me be so honest and open about my feelings at this time. It is too difficult to share these thoughts with people face to face. It is also great to have somewhere to go at all hours of the night when I can't phone family and friends who are sleeping.

I'm sorry to burden you with my sadness but perhaps in a small way it might be able to help someone else who may be experiencing a loss.

**danek** · May 19th, 2008, 05:39 AM

Its three weeks since Alex's birth. The longest time of our lives. I don't feel as though there has been any healing. I am stuck in this ongoing sadness. Not sleeping or eating. Just this great sense of loss that I cannot move on from.

For those that have been through this, please tell me there is hope.