Danek, Your freind probably felt the same way, and in the inside greiving with you for what should have been yours also, I cant offer words from experience but can from the piont of veiw of being the best freind of a mummy that lost her little baby to sids at 4 weeks old, for many weeks I avoided taking my son to her house, oneday she said to me did I think that she would kill him as she was going through a stage of anger and blaming herself, it took all my courage but I found the words comming out of my mouth that it wasnt her my son loves her and I could see her heart breaking and couldnt bear to see it break anymore, this was in Feb and she is his godmother but only in the last couple of weeks has she even been able to face him, so dont push yourself or place any expectations on yourself as to what others expect, take one day at a time and when you are ready to face others with children do it slowly, as I am sure they do understand hun.
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