New in here (well, sort of... i used to be "hope2006" a few years ago...decided i needed a new name since it is not 2006 anymore and life had changed a bit.. but was a regular in the m/c thread after my previous m/c... found the support in here last time was amazing, awesome and very necessary in helping me get back on my feet).
Just m/c last week which really sucks as we had tried constantly for 9 months to fall preg, then we did (SOOOO excited), then we lost it (SOOOOO upset) . About 5.5 or 6 weeks, my doc reckons. Sigh. Trying hard not to be too upset though... DH and I can't wait to get back on the TTC band-wagon once this m/c is over (have chosen to m/c naturally - i had a d & c with previous m/c which was a missed m/c at 12 weeks. Hope i don't need one this time cos it took 3 or 4 months to even get a normal cycle back after that D & C).
Trying to go with the attitude of "que sera sera" (whatever will be will be) but sometimes this philosophy gets totally overtaken by the tears and sadness.
Anway, just wanted to share my feelings and find comfort in you guys! Thanks for reading.
So sorry to hear of your loss hun but glad to see you back in BB (not this thread though) Hopefully you'll conceive again soon, after my 1st m/c in Feb 2006 I got pg in April that year and had Erin in the December so it is possible.
i am so sorry to hear of your loss. just take it day by day, and perhaps some days you will be able to accept whatever will be. don't be too hard on yourself if you don't want to accept it, though. hugs, m
Huge hugs sending your way...it really sucks especially after the excitment of seeing the second line...take care of yourself and allow time to grief and heal...
I am so sorry to hear of your loss its such a sad time my thoughts are with you and your DH i hope that you can get to TTC as soon as possible and that the wait is not as long as 9 months take care of yourself.
Hope you're doing well and everything has taken care of itself naturally. I've been thinking of you and meaning to call, but having a pretty shocking week here. We lost a dear friend (Lucy's godfather) unexpectedly last Friday and still can't believe it. I've been sick as well and now organising for family to come and stay for his funeral on Monday. But getting there...
So I'm hoping you'll forgive my oversight in not checking in with you! But I have been wondering if everything was going okay and you're feeling as good as you can atm. I'll be in touch soon!
OMG Jen... i am so sorry to hear about Lucy's godfather. i remember him from the Christening and he was a really lovely man. If there's anything i can do to help you during this time please just call... we'll help however we can.
Hi guys,
Just wanted to say thanks again for all the support. It has helped me to feel that i can move forward and embrace whatever comes our way in future. Thanks guys, you are the best.
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. About 5.5 or 6 weeks, my doc reckons. Sigh. Trying hard not to be too upset though... DH and I can't wait to get back on the TTC band-wagon once this m/c is over (have chosen to m/c naturally - i had a d & c with previous m/c which was a missed m/c at 12 weeks. Hope i don't need one this time cos it took 3 or 4 months to even get a normal cycle back after that D & C).
Big hugs for you from me and everyone here
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