Hey meggles - you sounds so much like me! I'll share why later. I just wanted to say, I am so so sorry. How are you coping after your D&C? Thinking of you and sending you big hugs.

After Sophie, I was really worried about myself, as I was "ok" and wasn't crying the same way as I had before. In time I got to the point where I felt like I was grieiving properly again, but each bereavement takes us on a different grief journey and none are exactly the same.

I just hope that ok is still ok. Thinking of you.