I am very sorry to hear about your loss and the ectopic. I had one last year and it was very traumatic and I lost my right tube. However, after then going through IVF cycles and a miscarriage, around Crhsitmas we conceived naturally through my one remaining tube, which is apparently in "bad shape"...and I ovulated on the side without a tube. So I just wanted to give you hope that it is possible to conceive naturally after an ectopic, even when your remaining tube isn't too good.
I hope you heal and recover well, emotionally and physically