So sorry to hear your sad news. I too had to find out if my little baby was a boy or girl. It did help knowing but also caused more pain... I was so shocked at how "badly" i took my m/c. I thought being a NICU nurse that i knew all about everything that could go wrong. I had to fight my Dr to get the genetic tests. He said that "we dont normally do that until your 4th or 5th m/c" im like WTF i am not going through this 4 more times to be told that DH and I have a huge chance of this happening again. I was lucky?? that it was just only of those things...trisomy 3? It was a little girl....its been years now but that actually hurt to write down as DH didnt want to know what it was....
My heart bleeds for you, i do so hope that you get to hold a baby in your arms soon!
To overcome the feeling of loss Prayers definitely help and console us a lot . Let us have a positive mentality to bear the loss , may the lord help us to have peace.
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