I'm so sorry about your loss. I didn't tell any one at work about my recent loss, not even my boss at the time it happened. As I started to get over it though, I found I needed to talk about it and told my closest work colleague. I felt I had to do it as I kept saying little things that must have been really cryptic to her. I was having to take time off for tests and an ultrasound & doctors appointments and it was getting hard to hide what had occurred. I also felt I was acting differently & bursting into tears at the drop of a hat and I felt it was important that the girl who sits next to me knew what was going on and didn't think I'd just suddenly gone mental. It was a huge relief when I got it off my chest. I've since told a couple of others at work in an effort to stem all the baby talk they were doing around me. It's a really hard road to travel but you will get through this.
BeiBei, I hope your procedure went as well as can be expected. I hope you are resting up at home, and allowing yourself the time to need to let your heart mend itself.
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