I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I hope you are OK. I wish the medical profession showed more care about early losses, but for the most part they don't. The "let nature take it's course" lecture didn't go down well with me when my FS said it to me around 10 years ago. It upset me so much I never even went back to him.

I think the problem is that OB's & FS's see miscarriage every day therefore it's commonplace to them, perhaps they've never experienced it themselves from a personal point of view. Many of them just don't seem to realise that even though it was an early loss the parents of this bub had already started to imagine the baby and had started to make plans for it's future. No matter how early the loss is the grief can be huge, even more so if it's taken a while to get there. I wish it was different but it's not.