No I don't think you are crazy at all. I had a m/c 5 weeks ago now and I still feel the same way. I must admit I am now starting to have a few more better days now, but on a bad day I still feel exactly like you describe.
It is still upsetting me too that everyone expects me to act as if nothing happened and to just get over it. I have to keep reminding my DH that it will take time and that I can't get over it to a timetable. Actually a funny thing happened to me yesterday - I saw an interview on Andrew Denton's show last night with Rod Stewart (after a conversation with DH about getting over it all) and Rod said about his marriage breakup "You can't get over or under it, you just have to push your way through it". That is EXACTLY how I feel at the moment and I told my DH that.
Also I notice that you are in Newcastle too - I don't know if you know or not, but there is a local miscarriage and stillbirth support group that meets monthly in Hamilton. I have the details - if you are interested just send me a PM. No problem if you're not interested though, I just thought I'd offer. I'm planning on going to it for the first time tomorrow night and am hoping it will help.
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