No woman should go through this and is very "unfair".
I know exactly what you mean about the "visible to you only" belly.
I miscarried my bub last year this time and even though i carried "her" for about the 3 weeks i had known, i had already told DH it was a girl and had even named her "Zara". It is very difficult to deal with when they are gone. You get so attached to them.
I am thinking of you during this difficult time. You will never forget your little bub but it does get easier with time. Allow your time to grieve.
I am sorry for your loss, I know how hard it is.
Don't blame yourself, some babies are given to us just for a short time.
I am not sure if you believe in God but that is what helped me through 3 miscarriages, knowing that there is a purpose for each life however short and understanding that it was not my fault and I could try again when I felt ready.
Give yourself time, vent on here as much as you need to. Try to surround yourself with your family and friends so you feel that you have support.
I am thinking of you and your little angel.
xxemxx
Last edited by organicem; June 15th, 2009 at 01:11 PM.
It is such an awful, empty hideous feeling grieving a baby & I am so sorry you are going through this. -
In answer is someone looking after her?
Well I will share what I belive - we all have a contract and hers was only short. She goes back to Source which is pure love - what Kawzuki said is so true. She will be with you in a way that will become clear to you in time. Sometimes its a flower, a butterfly, a bird, a feather.
Right now, my love and support is with you as you grieve your baby..
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