Hi Guys,
I am new to this forum and this whole concept.
I wanted to share my story with you and ask for some feedback on others that may have experienced recurrent loss and gone on to have a positive outcome.
Sorry it's a bit long winded but there's lots to tell
My partner and I began TTC in January 2007. We we successful after only 6 months and I found out I was pregnant in June 2006. Unfortunately at 6 weeks I had my first miscarriage.
We luckily (or so we thought) fell pregnant immediately - even though we were not trying we were obviously not careful enough and next thing we know im being rushed to the emergency ward with severe pain and what turned out to be internal bleeding from an ruptured ectopic pregnancy in my left tube. It was Fathers Day and I was 6 weeks.
They saved the tube but I spent 2 weeks in hospital and another 4 weeks at home recovering.
Needless to say we had a break.
Come January 08 we decided to try IVF as we did not want to risk another ectopic and we knew the left tube was badly damaged (in hindsight they should have taken it out or clamped it). We were over the moon to find out that we were pregnant again but joy turned to despair when we went for our 7 week scan to be told that the heartbeat was very low (90bpm) and the prognosis was not good. A week later (March 17th) I was diagnosed with a missed miscarriage and scheduled for a D&C.
Broken hearted but not to be deterred we once again put things down to bad luck and jumped back in the saddle.
May 2008 and once again we are pregnant (this time naturally). First scan at 6w3d looks good heartbeat 113bpm. Next scan 7w6d all ok heartbeat 135bpm. Then I began spotting just a light brown but I knew this was BAD. Rang OB and went for a scan at 8w3d all looks ok heartbeat still strong and im told to rest up. Spotting continues and im feeling pretty down. Conclusion 10w scan yesterday and no heartbeat. D&C tomorrow.
So basically today im distraught. While in the past I have been able to chalk things up to bad luck and try and rationalise my way through the journey of infertility, today it has finally hit me - there is something wrong with me...
My OB has already done genetic testing through IVF and this time around he put me on heparin injections and progesterone - he says that we are doing all we can and its just bad luck.
I can't accept that. There MUST be someway to find out what the problem is and fix it??? Mustn't there??
So what do we do now... I want to try again but we will have a break until next year. Can I go through this again? I really don't know - I feel useless like im letting myself and my husband down.
Sorry that this post is so negative but i'd really, really, really like some positive stories if there are any out there?????
Thanks for listening guys
Mel