Thank you so much for your support & for sharing your experiences.
DH & I have spoken & he has assured me that he is ok with everything & is just concerned about how I am feeling. I have shared my feelings with him & he agreed that he is having the same thoughts & feelings. So, I guess we're on a wavelength, which is a good thing. He assured me that if he wants to talk about it he'll bring it up.
Regarding sex after D&C, I've just reviewed the brochures & they recommend to wait until at least 2 weeks after a M/C. In reference to TTC, my OB said to wait until after my AF; which should come in about 5 weeks.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. I"ll keep you in my prayers.
My ob told us to wait 2 weeks before dtd.
Men grieve differently. Also, the pregnancy isn't as "real" to them as it is to us because we aren't even showing yet. And they try to be strong for us. I wouldn't probe him to share his feelings, but I would bring it up time to time and see how he reacts.
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