Hi Jo

I am so very sory to hear of your loss and what you had to go through it is so hard to give birth to your baby in these situations i to had to give birth at 23 wks and i will never ever forget it the world is so crul at times and i to asked my self why why my baby that i could have given a great life to the questions go round and round give your self time to heal and having you kids there does help my son came up to me he was 3 at the time and said i can heat the baby in your belly and that was it i just cried and cried as i new there was no baby in my tummy anymore i involved him in everything he came to the scans with me and we looked through all the baby books together so i sort of feel guilty that i involved him in something that just wasnt ment to be i hope you have the support you need and this site uis brilliant sending you big honey i hope the cremation goes as well as can be it will be a very sad day i will be thinking of you and your family take care honey.

Munchy xxx