Lost her at 20 weeks

[diannescruffy]

Hi,
I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious daughter. I lost my son at 24wks and I know how unbearable the pain you are going through is. You will find lots of comfort and support here on BB, I'm so glad you found us. There are no words I can say to take away your pain but it will get better. Just take day by day and grieve, let it all out, cry, scream if you have to. The pain of losing your daughter will never go away but you will learn how to deal with that pain and it will get better in time. Hold the memories of your daughter close to your heart.

Regards,
Dianne

[Marlene]

I am so sorry for your loss. There is no way for me to fully understand what you are going through, but my heart goes out to you and your family. Hold those little boys in your arms and remember your precious littel girl.

[Miss.B]

Hi there,

I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful little girl. I walked your path in October this year when I lost my precious little boy at almost 21 weeks, we named him Joshua Andrew. He was due on 12 February 2009. I have a large fibroid which started dying with my expanding uterus and then it caused the uterus to contract and I went into labour.

For weeks I blamed myself for not going with my gut instinct to remove the fibroid before I attempted to get pregnant. My OB always assured me that it was fine.
Now he admits that the fibroid aggrivated the urerus, only he hasn't seen a case like mine before. Lucky me.

Today I was told the fibroid is dead and it needs to be removed 'just in case'.
I can cope with that, although I can't help but feel this fibroid cost me my baby's life.

You are so lucky that you have the support of your husband and you two children. Believe me, you'll need it. My partner has been my rock, eventhough he was falling to pieces too.

I'm so glad you held your precious little angel and kissed her, and loved her. These memories will be with you forever and you will always cherish them. She'll always will be your little girl and your little angel, always watching over you and your family.

Please don't blame yourself for anything, as nothing you've done is your fault.

I wish you much strenght through this very difficult time, and I'm sending you lots of love and hugs

God bless.

Beata.