Hi everyone. Thank you all so much for your hugs and thoughts. It has given me more comfort than you will ever know and I'm so grateful for each one of you. Nothing was happening and it had been 4 weeks since our baby left us, so I had a d & c yesterday. My wonderful hubby travelled home as he was away for work and was there when I woke up, which was such a blessing. I was a mess yesterday, but today feel sadness and yet a strange relief at the same time. I think the finality of it helps in the grieving, because you know there's nothing there anymore. Does that make sense to anyone? We're going to take a couple of months out to get over this and will probably go for another IVF attempt around April/May. But for the moment, I'm just dealing with one day at a time and know that over time it will get better. You're all just so wonderful and your support has made a world of difference. Thank you all so much. xx