Hi Penny,

I am so so sad and sorry for you.

Sadly, I too understand your loss. I also got pregnant thru IVF with twins. I lost one at 4 weeks and went for my 12 week scan and twin 2 had no heartbeat. I was devastated.

The pain does get easier but still remains with me.

Make sure you do grieve for your loss. Don't move on like nothing happened. You need to let it out. I didn't really have an outlet, I hope you do. If not, please make sure you spill how your feel on the forum. People understand and 'do get it'. Sadly, so many of us have been there and I truly believe nobody understands how it feels unless you have walked in those shoes.

Work thru your grief, I'll be thinking of you. IVF is a tough experience. It's great you have some frozen embies...go for it...'when you're ready...'

Best of luck sweetheart.