Missed miscarriage 12 week scan :(

[mummytotwo]

Big hugs to you sweety - it is a cruel, cruel way to find out. I have been in your very shoes....twice now. You will get through it but be kind to yourself in the meantime xxxx

[starangelk]

I'm so sorry to hear this

[Joeve]

I am so sorry for the loss of your baby x

[human bean]

I am so so sorry you have lost your precious baby I too have walked that road and to go from expecting the biggest high at the scan to having your heart shattered hurts so very much

[madamerogers]

oh phebee darling....i am so sorry that you have lost your baby.
Please grieve how you need, but be kind to yourself.
x madame x

[Yas]

phebee,
Im so so sorry I know what your going through, i went through the exact same thing in august. I know it doesn't feel like it right now, and it won't anytime soon, but it does get easier....
Just take your time to cry and grieve, do whatever you have to do.
Im so sorry hun xoxoxox

[GabberQueeN]

So So Sorry

[nickle730]

[Queen]

I am so sorry for your loss Please be kind on yourself xo

[Jewel]

I'm so so sorry.

xox

[~Hestia~]

How are you going today sweetie?

[AwesomeFoursome]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious baby.

[phebee]

I'm okay. My Mum came to visit, which was lovely. I've been trying to distract myself and that's been okay but I was told about the song 'Spring' by John Butler and when I listened to that it all came back. Listen to it if you haven't.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gYTlK...e_gdata_player

DH is being a bit annoying. Poor thing probably has no idea how to comfort me and probably is upset himself, but it's manifesting in a 'trying-to-be-cheerful-and-go-on-normally' kind of way. I banned him from asking how I was cause he just kept asking too often and I know he's thinking all the time 'are you okay yet?' but not in a nasty impatient way. He's being supportive but... Yeah. Weird.

Thanks for asking


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[phebee]

OMG whatever you do if you ever have a miscarriage go straight for D&C!!! Misoprostol tablets have pretty much put me into labour and I am seriously considering adopting or getting a dog. Just don't do it. Get a D&C. I hope you never have tomake that decision but if you do, that's my advice.


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[sarah85]

Oh Phebee - I'm so sorry (I know the "I'm sorry"s don't mean much, but I don't know what else to say).

[madamerogers]

oh phebee sweet are you ok?
i hope the physical pain is over for you soon, then you can start to heal yourself,
i had a natural m/c, and was at that waiting point to say to my dr- just refer me for the d&c. i hope it isn't too tough
x stay strong x

[Isadora]

I'm very sorry to hear. Its no fair to get as far as 12 weeks only to be told bad news

[Yas]

OMG whatever you do if you ever have a miscarriage go straight for D&C!!! Misoprostol tablets have pretty much put me into labour and I am seriously considering adopting or getting a dog. Just don't do it. Get a D&C. I hope you never have tomake that decision but if you do, that's my advice.


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I know, mitaprostol really does put you into labour, it bloody hurts. Phebee, i had to have the mitaprostol before my D&C because it lessens the risk of them damaging the cervix. Hope your feeling better now, they even gave me morphine when i went to the hospital and it did nothing.....
Hope your feeling better hun xoxox