Oh hunny that was the most heart wrenching thing I have ever read. It is not your fault and nothing you did or didn't do would have changed this.
I don't know what to say except talk to your partner about how you are and how he is, tell him you are scared of losing him to. Be a rock for each other because your relationship is precious.
Most of all be kind to yourself, rest grieve, scream...do whatever you need to to get through this awful time. Thinking of you xo
I too had a missed m/c back in July last year and can totally understand your grief. Its such a horrible thing to go through. We had been through 5 rounds of IVF and had our 7 week scan and all good. I went back for another scan at 10 weeks and bubs had stopped growing just after the 7 week scan. I had a d&c a few days later and cant imagine what you have just been through being rushed to hospital How scary for you.
Keep talking with your partner as he is just as devastated as you are. I found talking to DH helped me. And all the lovely ladies on here. I couldn't talk to anyone else as it was too overwhelming.
For me it got easier with time, but those first few weeks were very dark.
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How scary for you.
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