Hi everyone this is my first time posting something on BB, so here i go.
Im 25 and married, i have had 2 miscarriage. My first one was in May 09 i was 7 weeks pregnant it was such an amazing feeling knowing that something so tiny inside you is growing and you are its mother. we were so happy. then one day i had a little bleed and went to the doctors but everything was okay, he told me just to rest and see how it goes. a week later we went back to check everything was fine, but it wasnt he had a look and there was no heart beat. he told us we should get a D&C done so we did. it was so scary going to the hospital knowing theres something still inside you but its not alive i guess. i didnt want to let go but i know i had to.
we got pregnant pretty fast the second time and we decided to see a gyno make sure we do everything right, i thought it was going to be okay. everyone tells you this time i have a feeling or the odds say you will be fine.
so i was about 6 weeks pregnany and i had another bleed went straight to the doctors and she put me on these tablets Progesterone i had to take one a day. i was so sick and tired with these tablets. but my levels were high everything felt fine.
we went back two weeks later to have a scan and again there was no heart beat, i couldnt believe it i thought no way this cant be happening. i looked over at my husband and you should of seen his face my god he was so guttered. i felt so guilty i know its not my fault but i just thought i had done everything right.he also wanted this so bad.
i went and got a D&C done this time it was abit easier at least you know what is going to happen.
Its now been a couple of months and i want to try again , but im also really scared its going to happen again. what am i going to do if it does?
i feel depressed alot of the time and i think about what if my babies made it. i would be a mum.
the doctors say that after your 3rd miscarriage they will do tests to see what is happening and hopefully figure out what is going on.
is there anything i can do now before i try and get pregnant again, so maybe i can have a healthy pregnancy or is there any tests i should know about. anything?
i just really want to know everything before i do this again. i want to give everything i have to make this work.
thanks for lisening i have not been able to talk to anyone about this until now.