I am so sad to hear of your loss. This is a truly amazing place to tell your story as there are so many wonderful ladies who are truly comforting.
I too lost a little boy. We were 36 weeks and we went for a scan and they could not find a heartbeat. I was devestated. Zachary, like you, was so wanted by our families. We had the nursery all finished the Sunday before we found out (which was on the Tuesday) and we were so excited at the prospect of being parents. Everything had been going so well with my pregnancy and Zachary was a healthy size.
Zachary brought Julian and I closer together and like you, we feel this was his gift to us. Julian has been my rock and I truly don't know where I would be without his support.
I read your story and there are so many similarities. I am also anxiously trying to get pregnant again and it seems like it is just not happening. It has been nearly 4 months since we lost Zachary. I totally understand about your heart breaking and like you, we don't smoke or drink or do drugs. It all seems so unfair.
Please know I am here for you if you want to talk or just vent or whatever.
Take care of yourself and don't worry about anyone but yourself right now
I just wanted to say thank you so much for all your kind words. I don't really remember writing this. I was almost in a complete daze. I do remember how it helped to have written it all down. I would reccommend to anyone to write it out.
Thanks again everyone. Moving on day by day, but will never forget my little boy.
Hi wishingforababy, i'm glad to hear that you are doing well day by day. No your little boy will never be far from your mind, however I wish you all the best for the future.
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