Oh Tanya,
I couldn't stop crying from reading the story of little Banjo's birth and farewell. My heart just breaks for you, such a hard thing for a mother to do is to farewell her baby. The balloon release is a wonderful tribute to him.
You are a beautiful woman, much loved and respected by all here in the BB forums you have an amazing strength it is so unfair that you have had to go through this.
I really cannot articulate what I want to say other than I am so sorry and I wish I could just reach through the cyber world and give you a big hug.
I just want to say thank you to everyone here who sent messages, pm's and those who helped Maz with our gifts for Banjo. The memorial went really well on Saturday very emotional, and it went just the way it should even with me forgetting some of the things I had planned. I urge anyone who has a loss not unlike mine to do the same. Surround yourself with support and recoginse your loss and your pregnancy and celebrate the way you have been touched by one so small. Don't hide it an allow yourself to grieve.
Tan
With next Friday being Samhain, if you don't mind, while we're in ritual, honouring those that have past (since it is one of the nights of the year the veil between the worlds is thinnest), we will send love to Banjo.
My soul sisters have all lost children, so we have some idea of the feelings going through you right now.
im so sorry for your loss of baby Banjo your much loved son Tanya.
the balloons and dasy lloked perfect and i really hope those seeds find a home and are planted in his memory.
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