My saga Continues

[rosehannah]

I understand how you feel, I have had a m/c at 13.5 weeks, this bleeding started out like spotting and I had lower ab. pain which felt like a heaviness pushing on my cervix. Over a couple of days this increased into heavier bleeding like a period, with more lower back pain and heaviness in cervix area.
With my two following pregnancies I had spotting-light bleeding for around 1.5 weeks at the 12-13 week period but without the heavy feeling, they were tense times.
hope all goes well for you

[scooby]

Dearest Psycobear
I really dont have much advice, but i just wanted to say i understand the pain of not knowing and i think it is just the worst. The 2 weeks i waited before knowing what was going on was worse than dealing with the ectopic and stuff, its almost a relief now which sounds awful, but the pain of having no control over your body is excrutiating. When people would talk to me or try and give advice i could have belted them, no word of a lie, some of the comments, such as at least you know you can get pregnant and everything happens for a reason They just have no idea. So my heart goes out to you and i really hope you get some answers soon, hopefully postive ones And sometimes its good just to withdraw from society alittle in times like this, i know its hard for people to know what to say, all i wanted was someone to say i'm so sorry youre going through this, and thankfully thats were BB comes in. I'm sending you very big hugs,you know where we are if you need to vent. Please dont worry about conceiving again, look how many people in here go on to have healthy wonderful pregnancies and you will too, hopefully this is the time. take care