Oh you poor darling having to go through all this. I lost my mum 6 years ago and I have found that every pain seems worse without her.
I hope that with a new obs you can have another bub who you will get to take home with you and love as much as its older sibling in heaven.
im very sorry for your loss, its very understandable that you would have lost all faith in your ob, esp when u had been telling hm of these pains and it fogged off.
i hope you can fall pg soon when the time is right and with extra can can carry bub to term.
i know some woman with IC have a cervical stitch early in their pregnancy to help them through
Thanks nickers. Yes it is so unfair when you pay high prices to get top care and he still cost me the life of my son because he didn't take my concerns seriously. He probably thought I was some neurotic first time mum to be (as this was my first pregnancy). It really saddens me because he was so highly recommended and is a very popular OB in Western Sydney - but it goes to show that all the initials at the end of a name means nothing. The new OB I have been seeing said he would put a stitch in at around 14 weeks but the first challenge is to get pregnant again soon!
What a heartbreaking loss! I am so sorry you have had to endure such trauma especially when the medical profession should have been there to help you.
Did your old OB have much to say on the whole matter? Like an apology!?
I pray you fall again very soon and can have the care you deserve with your new OB.
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