Hi everybody
Ok, i'll start at the begining. Im 22 years old and have 1 live healthy 2 yr old, and just last tuesday had my third m/c. I fell pregnant with my son when i was 18. I was on the pill, and had only been having sex for 2 months. It was a shock especially because i was so unhealthy (i was drinking and smoking and only weighed 36-38 kilos when i fell) but i was extremely happy. Up to 29wks everything went smoothly, then i started having pain in my left side, which got more and more severe.

By the time i wass 33wks i was in hospital on endone tablets because it was so severe. Then, at 34wks i went into labour, and the hospital stopped it progressing. I went into labour again at 36 wks, which again didn't progress. By this time i was in so much pain i could not get out of bed. At my nxt OB appointment at 37 wks my OB decided to induce me.

I had a pessery at 7am and was having severe contractions by 9:30am. The contractions hadn't settled down by 4 that afternoon, and they couldn't stop the labour so i had an emergency c section. My son was bon at 6:41pm on feb 14 2008.We were both healthy and i was so relieved. The OB looked inside to see a cause for my pain and nothing was found.

Following the birth of my son i went on the mini pill and then the normal pill in may. I concieved again in late september and miscarried at the start of november. I didn't know i was pg, i just thought it was the stress of going back to work. I was sad, but i didn't worry to much about it, thinking i concieved too soon after giving birth to my son, and being on the pill. I was told it was it would happen naturaly, and had and u/s and they said it was still happening and it should be a complete m/c.

The months following i was really sick. For 5 months i did not stop bleeding for more than a week, and i was still on the pill.I even swapped pills, but that didn't work either. I was then advised by my OB to go off the pill in Jan09. I was anemic and would pass out from severe pain and shake. In the following Feb 09 i have a laproscopy and D&C. No real cause was found for those months i suffered, just that there were growths in my uterus.

My partner and I decided to ttc again after i got better, and i fell pg in Sept 09 and i miscarried again in Oct 09. I was absolutely devastated and couldn't understand why this was happening (i still don't). I had just turned 21.

My partner and I were'nt using contreception at all after Jan 09 and i didn't go back on it after this m/c. I fell pg on 27 may this year. I just found out via u/s last tuesday that my baby had passed away at 9wks 1day. I had a D&C on thursday. I was supposed to be 12wks that day.

I am now getting tested to see whats going on. I am absolutely devastated and......there just aren't words. All of you know. I just don't understand. Does anyone have any ideas? I just can't do this again.....