thread: Our angels-could be upsetting to some

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  1. #1
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    Jan 2011
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    Don't feel like you ever have to "get over it". That was your child and you can grieve as much as you need to.

    I am so sorry you have to go through this.

    Take all the time you need and go gently.

  2. #2
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    Jan 2009
    Raby, NSW
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    I'm so so so sorry

  3. #3
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    Jun 2012
    South Australia
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    oh hun i am so deeply sorry. gentle s for you. don't ever feel that you need to get over it.

  4. #4
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    Oct 2008
    In a Nice Safe Space
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    So sorry to read this. You have to move through this a your own pace. Such a sad, sad thing for you and your husband to go through.

  5. #5
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    Dec 2008
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    I'm so sorry hun, life is so unfair when our little ones get taken away . Look after yourself and go gently hun xoxox

  6. #6
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    Nov 2008
    Perth, WA
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    Just . Lots and lots of them x

  7. #7
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    Mar 2010
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    There is no cure or time limit for something like this. For me it was one foot in front of the other, day by day. Go with the feelings that rise, don't try to be anything but what you are feeling in each moment. Some days are better then others. Remember, no matter how small your baby was, your body has just given birth, you are open and fragile so be gentle with yourself like you would after birth. Take time to rest and heal as you would after birth. Miscarriage has changed my life and how I walk in the world, may your journey unfold into a transformation that you could never have imagined for yourself.