thread: Our Grief

  1. #1
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    Jun 2009
    Denmark
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    Our Grief

    Seems like i have landed on a place where i can share my pain.

    SORRY FOR ALL YOUR LOSSES MOMS.

    Here is my story:-

    I carried her for 41 weeks, we were only waiting for her head to engage into the pelvis, but it never did. Just last wednesday night i went to sleep and when i woke up thursday morning i couldnt feel her move. I took a glass of cold water which often woke her up but this time it didnt.
    I called the doctor who did the U/S and she couldnt find a heartbeat. I froze that very second when i was gazing at the monitor.

    For all the 9months, i had no complication of any kind and her heartbeat was monitored 3times a day.

    Thursday 11/june was our day to cope with the grief, Friday morning i was induced. They broke my water and i was put on a drip, 2hrs later i gave birth to her through all the pain and struggle but she was worth it even though we were not to keep her.
    She arrived at 2.34pm friday 12th. Saturday we shared our loss with family, sunday we put her to rest.

    HOW EMPTY WE FEEL WITH OUT HER. OUR WORLD HAS COME STAMBLING DOWN ON US
    We see her gentle little perfect face in every sunrise and every sunset.

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    Oct 2005
    Moura, QLD, Australia
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    oh sweetie I am so sorry

    but you have definatkly found the place here, the girls are wonderful and supportive

  3. #3
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    Dec 2007
    Geelong
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    So very sorry for the loss of your precious angel. My heart is aching for you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

    Regards,
    Dianne

    Emmanuel born sleeping at 24wks
    Trisomy 13

  4. #4
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    Sep 2007
    Blue Mountains, NSW
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    hi

    thinking of you, your family, and you and your precious little princess.
    Such a sad story, I feel your pain my story is here: http://forums.bellybelly.com.au/foru...ilda-rose.html
    She will always be with you in your heart.
    Take care,

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    I don't know what to say but I am sorry

  6. #6
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    Jan 2008
    In a land of bubbles and trouble
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    Words cannot describe how intensely heartbroken I am for you and your family.


  7. #7
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    Dec 2006
    In the Angelic Realm
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    Oh hun,

    I am so sorry for your loss. No mother or parent should go through the pain and heartbreak as you did.

    I am thinking of you during this terrible time.

    xxoo

  8. #8
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    Feb 2009
    The Best Place To Be
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    Hun I'm so sorry for your loss.
    No one deserves to go through the hurt and pain that the loss of a child brings, and I really feel for you. You're in my thoughts and I wish you great happiness in the future. There are so many beautiful women on here that are willing to let you open up to them about what you're going through and how you feel; and I advise that you do.

    All The Best and Lots of Hugs

    Mikayla x

  9. #9
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    Oct 2006
    Adelaide, SA
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    I don't have words to express how sorry I am for the tragic loss of your baby girl.
    No mummy should have to leave hospital without their baby, my heart goes out to you.

  10. #10
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    Oct 2007
    Brisbane
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    Vianna - I am so sorry for the loss of your baby girl. Please know there are people here who have some understanding of your pain and will do all they can to help you through your grief.
    Much Love
    Dellly

  11. #11
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    Dec 2006
    Out of my mind. Back in five minutes...
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    So So sorry for your tragic loss. RIP little girl.

  12. #12
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    Jun 2009
    Denmark
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    oh sweetie I am so sorry

    but you have definatkly found the place here, the girls are wonderful and supportive
    Thanks. Yes definately looks like it.

  13. #13
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    Jun 2009
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    THANK YOU DEAR FRIENDS AND MOMS ON THIS SITE. THANKS FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT, LOVE AND SUPPORT.

    Our little Angel,s Name was going to be:-

    http://i117.photobucket.com/albums/o46/justrudy/aa1.png

  14. #14
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    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
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    I'm so very sorry for your loss Vianna. RIP little princess.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.