It's so hard

Could your husband have a quiet word with your friends at all? Just so they know - they may feel awful about hurting you without realising it.

If at all possible, try to prepare yourself for how *stupid *unfeeling *hurtful *ignorant some people can be about miscarriage. Some don't mean it and and have no idea. Some think it is helpful to tell you to 'get over it' or that you can try again.

When I suffered a loss I thought it would be a private thing I had to nurse on my own but I found that 1) people came out of the woodwork saying they had experienced a loss too and 2) there was so much compassion and support on Belly Belly that cushioned the pain a little...and I haven't left here since.

Welcome to Belly Belly, I'm sorry it's not under better circumstances but I hope you find it is as good for your soul as it has been for mine. xoxoxo