Thank you for sharing Reid's story with us Sara. I am heartbroken for you losing your darling son. I hope you are able to get some answers. Not that anything can take away the pain, but so something can possibly be done, either at the hospital or in future pregnancies.

Take time to grieve and heal. The grief never leaves, you just learn to live with it. Losing a child changes you forever and it can take time for you and for others to learn and accept what your new "normal" is.

As for Reid's ashes, that's so personal. We have our boys together in one urn in our bedroom. We also wear memorial jewelery in which we've placed some of the ashes, so they are always with us. Others bury them in a place they like to visit. Dont rush the decision.

Reid will always be with you. You honour him with your story. Thanks again for sharing with us.