Phoenix Star 02/11/2011 - 18 weeks gestation

[Babyluv]

I'm so so sorry to hear your precious boy couldn't stay. Please don't feel any shame. My thoughts are with you and your partner xx

[RubyLotus]

thanks for all of your kind words of support. It is so nice to come on here and see that people truly care and understand

I just came from my GP who informed me that he had spoken with the obstetrician who treated me and she has decided that the cause of our loss was an incompetent cervix. Dont know how i feel, kind of annoyed that she couldnt tell me that herself when i was there, but my GP says there was a lot of things to factor in before coming to that conclusion.......GP has also advised us to wait for test results from bubs just in case of other issues, but is fairly confident bubs was fine.......Frustrating Much!!!!!!!

Wish there was something i could of done or known about earlier, that could of prevented this from happening.......

Devastated

[RhiChiChi]

I'm so terribly sorry that your little man couldn't stay earthside. Fly free little Phoenix

[delphmoon]

I'm soo sorry

I never have the right words to say with things like this but....sending you strength and healing during this devastating and heartbreaking time luv

Thinking of you xx