sad to say i'm back

[windyL1975]

hi all,
i'm back with a missed miscarriage, i was 11 weeks 3 days. Had a D&C sept 3rd
this is so hard to take in after loosing again when i thought everything was going good.
now i am giving my body a break to heal from the losses. i'm pretty sure it's my hormones being out of whack. i'm still bleeding spotting but i hope it stops soon.

[Matthew's Mum]

Sorry for your losses,I to had a missed miscarriage(It's such a shock,when you're not having symptoms,I had morning sickness the day I went for my routine scan ,I was worried I wouldn't be able to keep all that water down).The doctors told me you can still feel pregnant because of hormones are bodies still make,now that you've had a d&c hopefully you'll start to feel better soon,physically that is,I know emotionally i'ts not that easy.Hope you find a way that helps you through your grief.hugs

[diannescruffy]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Big hugs to you.

Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13

[murraycod]

WindyL im sorry for your loss. RIP little angel.
I hope that you are taking care of yourself, and give your heart time to heal X
We are all hear for you X

[windyL1975]

Thanks Ladies,

I've been taking it easy, Hubby has been taking care of me and the kids.
I have a follow up appt. next wed. i don't even know what to expect at the appt. since i had a D&C. anybody that had a d&c know what is going to happen at the follow up appt?

[Matthew's Mum]

glad you've been able to take it easy,I didn't have a d&c but at my follow up appointment councilling ,any testing what was done and a pregnancy plan for next time was discussed.

[Ryatha]

I had a missed misscarriage as well. It is such a shock and takes a long time to understand and come to terms with it, and the feeling of loss has never gone away for me. After my D&C I had what was like a normal AF, my cycle returned to normal straight away but I let my body heal and didn't even think about TTC for a year or so. At the follow up appointment my Ob checked when I wanted to TTC again and how I was coping physically and emotionally. He also discussed what would happen if I conceived again and what tests would be done.
Hope you are ok

Me & DH
DD1 - 6 years & DD2 - 12 weeks
AB Jan 03 & Jul 07

[~*lilla*~]

So sorry to hear that. I'm only new here and I don't know you but just wanted to send you some cyber hugs. I know it doesn't take the pain away, but hope you and your family can get through this.

[ButterflyForever]

hi

thinking of you and both of your precious babies.

[bookworm12]

I'm so sorry for your loss, take your time to deal with the emotions and rely on the support from your family and all the great people in here.