BabyFever.

i know exactly what you are going through love. The pain and tormented thoughts about a bub that you want so much but never got to carry, birth and love. I was informed that i had miscarried at about 7 weeks when the sac was empty at a routine u/s and that was 7 weeks ago. I would have been about 14weeks pregnant with a nice little baby bump by now but it was meant to happen. I still grieve for my bub (and i have tears in my eyes as i am typing this) 7 weeks on. I was thinking of her (i wished for it to be a little girl) yesterday, driving and spoke out loud, hoping that she'd hear me and how i missed her so much, my dear little baby Zara, wanted by no-one but me (she was unplanned). i don't think you can set a grievance time. You will always think of your little bub, sometimes at the most unexpected times. I don't think i can ever forget her. She was truly my last chance at having bub#3 as hubby wanted and still wants no more kids.

I agree with Tully, if the dr. says to get a D&C done, go get it done as then you will rest assured that there is no conception product left and you can start TTC for another bubs when you are ready.

You haven't done anything wrong to m/c this bub. I was always blamed for losing my little Zara through exercising or going to the heated pools or some other stupid reason. Drs told me that it was not my fault and that sometimes the female and male chromosomes (in the egg and sperm) don't communicate that well and decide abort. It's just nature telling us that the baby wouldn't have been the perfect little being that we all wish for. Try and be positive. i know it is hard. People around you might think you are stupid for crying after the loss at such an early stage of pregnancy but they don't know what you are going through. Grieving is normal. Cry all you want.

I truly wish you all the best. Try and be positive...