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Hi Girls how are you all i havent been in for 4 days so missed a bit i hope you are all ok and babyhopes hope you are coping with things as well as you can.
welcome teaching mum i just wanted to say retail therapy is the best when i lost my little girl all i done was buy things mainly for my son but it still made me feel good seeing him be happy he was very spoilt for a few months i think it was my way of grieving trying to block everything out but i def recommend haircut and getting some new make up and clothes it does make you feel so much better anyway hope you are all ok i am a little bit down as af is just started i was really hoping i was pregnant i guess i will have to keep on trying its just i have been trying 10 months now it feels like yrs.
Take care
Munchy xxx
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hey muchy
i noticed you havn't been on and was hoping everything was ok so sorry to hear af arrived:hug:i was so hoping you would get ur bfp :(i have been so crappy latly every day i wake up it's a toss up to see what i will have for the day cramps or another headache or something else i am really gonna try to get to the doctors this wk and get it sorted out
big hugs and thinking of you
hey starrysky
i hope you have been keeping well latly and not having a bad run like i am big hugs for you :hug:
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Babyhopes
I feel for you so much sending you a big :hug: i really think you should go doctors and i hope you get it all sorted after loosing a baby the last thing you want is to have all of this going on as it makes you feel ten times worse and you think its the end of the world but take care of yourself and make sure the docs listen to you i gave up on docs before but then my Af's started playing up again and i thought thats it i am not having this any more they are gonna do something and i wont let them ignore me so i just wish i had my results back from my smear cos if its clear they can get on with the blood tests as i think i could have a hormone inbalance as my mum has one but i hope i dont as i really want to have another baby sorry to ramble on again but let me no how you get on, after tommrow i wont be on hear for 2 weeks as i will be on holiday hopefully in SUNNY france i think i will miss the site a little i will have loads to catch up on.
take care
Munchy xxx
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hi babyhopes,
had a bad couple of days, my brothers gf m/c on sunday, then at work on monday had all my old customers asking me when the baby was going to be due.......
:cry::cry:
yesterday i tried to just take care of myself, had a bath and did lots of girly things
then last night i wrote a poem... i posted it in my story thread if you want to read.
dp didnt think much of it, he said and i quote "its like you are thinking of it as a person, when it wasnt" hmmmmm:(
oh well, we all cope in the best way we know how.
hope you are taking care of yourself, you really should get to the doc if you are still having probs.
is three weeks today, wish i wouldnt remember things like that......
hi munchy hope you have a nice time!!!
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Hi Starrysky
Sorry to hear about your brothers GF especially so soon after yours it must be so upsetting for your family right now. was it your first day back? i had 8 weeks of work altogether and going back was so hard as everyone new i was pregnant before as i had a biggish bump well i was 20 wks pregnant so coming back was hard i was scared if people were gonna ask question or say something like oh you have had the baby then but they didnt there was just one lady on reception who said arnt you due soon when is it and then i said no i lost her at 23wks i think she felt worse than me but it is still very early days for you and you will find things will upset you i still get upset now. As to your DP how insensitive sounds just like my DH let me just say that it was a person and it was still this little baby that had grown however long in your tummy you still had a connection it doesnt matter how far along you were it was a baby and he should see it as a baby you still had all the hopes and dreams for your family with your bub so ignore any comments like that sending big :hug: to you take care of yourself.
Munchy xxx
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thankyou so much munchy, it is so nice to have people like yourself who understand xxx
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Thats ok honey anytime it always helps when someone truely understands take care.
Munchy xxx
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hi starrysky
i am so sorry to hear about yr brothers gf and i did read your forum for poem brought tears to my eyes it's a really great way to exspress ur emotions
hi munchy
i hope you and hubby have a nice time on ur holidays we will miss chatting with you while ur away
big hugs to you both
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how are you babyhopes?
let me know how you go at the doc if/when you go.
i think the poem made me feel worse when i was writing it, but felt pretty good yesterday and even better today, mind you the nice weather makes it easier, it is 28 here today but windy, going to the beach later.
even if you are only thinking about ttc again you are more than welcome in the ttc threads, would love to chat with you there.
take care xxx
starrysky
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hey starrysky
well i went back to the doctors today and they are finally gonna do something i go for blood tests tommorrow and i have a u/s next tuesday hopefully it won't be all bad news it will give me peice of mind about what's going on now though
so how you holding up hope everythings ok hope your brothers g/f is doing ok aswell i can imagine you still have yr down days like i do i have to say though i was at my worst the first week i came home sometimes i still think about things alot i would have been two weeks off my u/s to find out what bub was but i know in my heart bub was a little girl and in my heart bub will always stay take care of urself
big hugs
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that is so true babyhopes, i hope everything goes alright at the docs today, let me know how you go....
i havent heard from my bros g/f will be seeing her on sunday i think, i had a bad night last night, i was howling....oh well, we can get through this.
love starrysky
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Baby Hopes
I too am so sorry for you loss and have been exactly where you are now. You will come out the otherside of this but please allow yourself time to grieve. Take care of yourself and your partner as it is a really difficult time. BB is a great place to be, I for sure come back for my fix of bravery.
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hi starrysky
how are you doing well i hope?
well i went for my u/s and they didn't say it was bad but didn't say it was good either the only thing he did say was they couldn't see my endometrial linning which didn't sound good it's been 5wks now and nothing i'm wondering does that mean no more af's at all or that i'll be waiting mnths? the weird thing was it was the day i should have had my 19wk scan and the same guy:( anyway i'll get the report tommorrow
take care hugs
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Hi Baby hopes
Sorry to hear about your loss. I also have been through the crap and I finaly feel that I am starting to feel better. I don't cry as much at night, I found myself happy :cryinglaugh: the other day (it hasn't happened for a while).
Do I understand correctly that you haven't had AF for 5 weeks since M/C and D&C??? Have you had any pain???? How many weeks between MC and ultra sound??
If you want send a personal message to me and I will explaine why all the Questions
Cheers
Chris
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hi chris first of all sorry for your loss
i am not sure how to send a personal message i had a d and c bleed for nearly two weeks after and it's been nearly 6wks now and no af yet the doctors have only just sent me for an u/s yesterday so any advice would be really appreciated
take care hugs xxx
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Hi Baby hopes
I worked out how to do a Personal Message just the other day. You click on the underlined privatemessage up the top of your screen between the welcom and the mood.
When you said they found no endo lining do you mean there was a endo line but no thickness to it???
Its only 3 weeks since you finished your bleed from D&C so don't push the panic button yet. I didn't get AF for months after my D&C (had D&C sept and got AF in june) but that is because I had probs. I gave birth to my baby in emergency rooms at local hosp and it was the worst thing that I have ever done, I thought I was going to die. People say you don't know pain till you have a baby well my M/C was worse than my 2 deliveries. I have been on a real bad roller coaster ride since the M/C with alot of twists and turns, highs and lows, now I think it is ending and I hope the ride from here on will be a smooth one.
I hope you don't go through what I have been through.
I hope that its only hormones that is causing this delay as they still could be out of whack.:crossfingers:
Take care
Chris
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hi chris
the guy who did the u/s never told me much at all he just said they couldn't see the endo lining properly i am hoping it's not a big problem either i forgot to mention last night [sorry was tired as] yes i have been in pain almost every day since one night i had pain so bad it was in my stomach and my back and i really thought it was my af but then got nothing as for the hormones i havn't even had those checked my local doctor has done nothing so far i am hoping to get back there this wks and get things sorted out it is a stressful time when you don't know what's going on
take care hugxxx
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Hi Baby hopes
did the u/s guy give you a cd at all with your results as that is what I get at my visits.
I understand how stressing it can get :wall: if I were you I would go see GP ask for results of u/s and for a blood test to check hormone levels.
If you did get cd from u/s check it out it might give you the thickness of your lining.
If your GP is not so good try and get a referal to Royal Womens hospital at Randwick. They will help sort things out.
Let me know how you get on.
Take care
Chris
