oh, Sally, i am so sorry for your loss. i wish this never had to happen to anyone ever again. i too, had the experience of finding out my sweet baby had died when i went to my regularly scheduled ultrasound. it is such a traumatic event, and no one can ever be quite the same after again.

i am so glad that you can rely on your mom and dh for support through this horrible period and for the grief that will follow. hang on to this support and allow them into your heart. time will also be our friend, it just feels like it takes forever to feel a bit better. i have finally started to have more "good days" than bad ones. you are right, though, you will never forget your baby. and your baby knows through its physical and emotional link to you that he or she was and still is loved and wanted. you will always be a mom to your baby. please be good to yourself and allow your grief to flow, even though it is painful. hugs to you and your dh. xxoom