LJ268 I know exactly what you mean. In my job i come in contact with a lot of people and one springs into mind that i had dealings with she was 7 months pregnant and just 'shot up' i remember seeing her at the hospital and all she was saying was get this ****!!!! (not nice words) out of me - i dont want it any way. Thats when i start to think..... When i was pregnant i would not drink coffee or even a sip of wine with dinner - but then we have people in this would like the female that i referred to just "popping" bubs out. It saddens me a great deal - to know the type of life that poor bub would have - then there are people who try so hard probably can give a little one the perfect life but are unable to. I struggle with this...