Big hugs RR. I am so sorry for your loss. Of course you will be grieving for your lost baby. That is so normal. Don't worry about people who don't understand that. Just do what you need to do, to give yourself time to grieve, accept and start to come out the other side.

I am no expert here, so I won't try to give you detailed answers to your questions. But I know of many people who have successfully fallen pg within a cycle or two of m/c. I guess it is an individual thing as to when you will be emotionally ready to TTC again. I don't know when that will be for you, but I am sure you will know when the time comes.

Take care hun.