A friend of mine had a lot of miscarriages, always early on, so there was no way of testing for problems. However, her husband worked with strong chemicals - once he had been in a new job for a few months, they fell pregnant with a sticky bub, and have since had another. While the girls suggestions for you to make sure you keep up with your vitamins are great, perhaps hubby should go on some as well? A multivitamin would help, but perhaps Menevit would be even better, as its specifically designed for male fertility.
I know how it feels to have multiple miscarriages - you start to wonder whats wrong with you, and maybe even wish you couldn't fall pregnant at all, because then at least you wouldn't get attached. I'm not going to tell you that these things happen for a reason, because that's no help. There is NO way to justify things like this - all we can do is allow them to mold us, and help us grow.
Your darling babies will always be remembered, by you and your family, and by your friends here.
Thank you all, a lot has happened in the last week. The amount of bleeding I had the drs thought nothing would survive. It was really really disgusting I assure you. They did more scans and found out it is not ectopic, there is a sac still in the uterus, but they can't see a baby inside. Dr says it is most likely an anembryonic pregnancy, need another scan in a week to see if it is still there or not and if it is and theres still no baby then they are going to give me a D&C
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