So sorry to read your story my love...

The pain of loss is like no other pain - & sometimes you truly cannot believe you can live through it. But you know you can. You will - each day you will be a little closer to the day where you smile more than you cry again...xxx :

The loss of your baby has nothing to do with how good or otherwise you feel about yourself. Babies are lost every day - 1 in 3. They are lost to all of us - with no rule to who this affects. There are so many reasons. The most likely reason for a very early loss is that there were chromosomal issues that were not compatible with life. I know that is no consolation - but it's to illustrate that it's not about you. Okay?

For now, reach out to all the wonderful women in here. Many of us have been where you are. Wheat packs on your belly & your back can really help. The herb crampbark if you can access a health food shop (tincture is best)... Otherwise use some analgesia that you know you can tolerate. Sometimes Mersyndol can be good as it has a calmative that can make you a bit sleepy. Sending you lots of squishy cuddles.