My DD first visited the dentist at school. They took them over, showed them the chair and how it went up and down, then asked if they wanted to have a 'ride'in it lol. When they got in the chair they showed them the funny glasses they wear, and the light above them, then special mirror they use to check their teeth.

Her first visit outside of school was probably 2 years ago. I was lucky that I had a paed dentist's name given to me to call. she was perfect, even though DD was older, she talked through everything with her. Before we went for the visit, we spoke with DD HEAPS about her visit to the dentist, how they would check her teeth and count them etc...

I think honesty is probably the better way to go instead of springing it on her when you get there. what if you called the dentists office and asked if they could do a visit a few days earlier where she can check the chair/glasses/big light etc..out?

eta: forgot to say, bribery goes a long way maybe a promise of something new or a milkshake/special treat once she is finished at the dentist?