Hi there. Well I found out we can't adopt her as there is no country agreement for Holland to Australia and we can't sponsor into Australia because a cousin isn't considered a close enough relative. We are waiting to see what happens at the moment with my aunties health. I suspect she is in denial at the moment and therefore probably hasn't thought about possibilities. But my dad will broach it again when it seems to be appropriate. He and my mum would sponsor her as an uncle is a close enough relative. They have just retired and live a bit far out though. So I guess we will see. But I agree - lets hope all will be well.