Thats what the people told us as well - you are taken off the list once the baby is born and will need to be reassessed afterwards as your child changes your situation.

We are still pursuing adoption - have completed all of our education seminars, now are doing our medical and financial check paperwork to submit to DCP before we can start the assessment process. We are taking our time at the moment, just trying to enjoy our lives a bit before getting back on the ivf/adoption rollercoaster